Panic Disorder

P (1)Well, I did manage to bring in the mail during the day yesterday and, as always happens, by the time I got back in the house my heart was pounding, I was sweating, I could barely catch my breath, and I had to sit on the stairs before I could take the mail either up or down (we live in a bi-level).

So, before I could celebrate that I had achieved something which was a 9 (on a scale of 1-10) on my Fear Ladder, I needed to calm myself down. I did something my therapist had taught me. I placed my right hand on my chest, my left on my stomach, and began to do my best to take deep breaths in through my nose, and out through my mouth, then eventually out through my nose as well. I kept my eyes open the whole time, so that every time I caught my chest rising when I breathed in instead of my stomach, I had to change that. I thought about how babies breathe. They’re such belly breathers! Not a care in the world as they lie on their backs wherever they are, breathing in and pushing that belly out. When we sleep at night, we’re belly breathers. We’ve just forgotten this in our hell fire hurry to get things done.

Let’s belly breathe more often. I’ll sure remember it, next time I get in a tight spot.

This is the entirety of my Fear Ladder. As you can see, it’s written for, and leading up to, a very specific reason:

3 Imagining walking the dog
3.5 Draw self walking dog
4 Look at pictures of lots of people outside
4.5 Watch video of someone walking outside
4.5 Ask for help in a store
4.5 Buy jeans
5 Putting gas in car
5 Walk with someone in a private area
5 Answering the phone
5 Driving in the car
5 Ask for directions
6 Walking into unfamiliar store or business
7 Walk with someone in public
7 Sit outside reading a book and smoking
8 Watch video of someone else with social anxiety disorder
8 Stand outside, look around
8 Taking garbage out
8 Walk with Lucy to the mailbox
9 Walk alone to the mailbox
9 Walk dog around the block
9 Walk down Meadowbrook with Lucy

Hmm. It occurs to me that I’m opening myself up for lots of ridicule by being so vulnerable and, well, open about myself. But I couldn’t think of a better example about panic disorder that didn’t sound straight out of a textbook.

So there you have it!

Ciao, Bella.'That's right! No huffing a puffing for 30 minutes on a treadmill. We've developed a new stress test that is faster and more accurate.'

 

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4 Responses »

  1. Clearly, Lucy needs to take you to the mailbox, since that’s lower on the panic scale.

    Do you get any benefit from doing two at once (taking the garbage out while Lucy walks you to the mailbox), or is that worse?

    No ridicule from me. Several of those things have a similar rating for me. I never thought of it in the way you present it, though.

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    • Dear Jean,
      Thanks for not making fun of me. I’m sorry that you can relate to some of this, even if only a little. Yes, it would seem Lucy needs to come with me to the mailbox. What happens is, I focus on her and don’t think so much about what’s happening or not happening around me.

      I’ve never tried to take the garbage out with Lucy. That would be sort of a handful, since she’s on a leash.

      Although, do you know the last couple of times her collar has slipped off she’s just stayed close, acting like it’s her fault somehow? (Sorry, Mom, I plumb got my collar right off!) She’s a dear, but doing two things at once with her might be a bit too difficult. For me, anyway.

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  2. Scary meme!!! 🙂

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